| ACCEPTANCE: to be accepted as I am, ACCURACY: to be accurate in my opinions and beliefs, ACHIEVEMENT: to have important accomplishments, ADVENTURE: to have new and exciting experiences, ATTRACTIVENESS: to be physically attractive, AUTHORITY: to be in charge of and responsible for others, AUTONOMY: to be self-determined and independent, BEAUTY: to appreciate beauty around me, CARING: to take care of others, CHALLENGE: to take on difficult tasks and problems, CHANGE: to have a life full of change and variety, COMFORT: to have a pleasant and comfortable life, COMMITMENT: to make enduring, meaningful commitments, COMPASSION: to feel and act on concern for others, CONTRIBUTION: to make a lasting contribution in the world, COOPERATION: to work collaboratively with others, COURTESY: to be considerate and polite toward others, CREATIVITY: to have new and original ideas, DUTY: to carry out my duties and obligations, DEPENDABILITY: to be reliable and trustworthy, ECOLOGY: to live in harmony with the environment, EXCITEMENT: to have a life full of thrills and stimulation, FAITHFULNESS: to be loyal and true in relationships, FAME: to be known and recognized, FAMILY: to have a happy, loving family, FITNESS: to be physically fit and strong, FLEXIBILITY: to adjust to new circumstances easily, FORGIVENESS: to be forgiving of others, FRIENDSHIP: to have close, supportive friends, FUN: to play and have fun, GENEROSITY: to give what I have to others, GENUINENESS: to act in a manner that is true to who I am, GOD'S WILL: to seek and obey the will of God, GROWTH: to keep changing and growing, HEALTH: to be physically well and healthy, HELPFULNESS: to be helpful to others, HONESTY: to be honest and truthful, HUMILITY: to be modest and unassuming, HUMOR: to see the humorous side of myself and the world, INDEPENDENCE: to be free from dependence on others, INDUSTRY: to work hard and well at my life tasks, INNER PEACE: to experience personal peace, INTIMACY: to share my inner most experiences with others, JUSTICE: to promote fair and equal treatment for all, KNOWLEDGE: to learn and contribute valuable knowledge, LEISURE: to take time to relax and enjoy, LOVED: to be loved by those close to me, LOVING: to give love to others, MASTERY: to be competent in my everyday activities, MINDFULNESS: to live conscious and mindful of the present moment, MODERATION: to avoid excesses and find a middle ground, MONOGAMY: to have one close, loving relationship, NON-CONFORMITY: to question and challenge authority and norms, NURTURANCE: to take care of and nurture others, OPENNESS: to be open to new experiences, ideas, and options, WORLD PEACE: to work to promote peace in the world, TRADITION: to follow respected patterns of the past, TOLERANCE: to accept and respect those who differ from me, STABILITY: to have a life that stays fairly consistent, SPIRITUALITY: to grow and mature spiritually, SOLITUDE: to have time and space where I can be apart from others, SIMPLICITY: to live life simply, with minimal needs, SEXUALITY: to have an active and satisfying sex life, SERVICE: to be of service to others, SELF-ESTEEM: to feel good about myself, SELF-CONTROL: to be disciplined in my own actions, SELF-ACCEPTANCE: to accept myself as I am, SAFETY: to be safe and secure, ROMANCE: to have intense, exciting love in my life, RISK: to take risks and chances, POPULARITY: to be well-liked by many people, PLEASURE: to feel good, PASSION: to have deep feelings about ideas, activities, or people, ORDER: to have a life that is well-ordered and organized, VIRTUE: to live a morally pure and excellent life, WEALTH: to have plenty of money, SELF-KNOWLEDGE: to have a deep and honest understanding of myself, RESPONSIBILITY: to make and carry out responsible decisions, REALISM: to see and act realistically and practically, PURPOSE: to have meaning and direction in my life, POWER: to have control over others, RATIONALITY: to be guided by reason, logic, and evidence, PROVIDE: to provide for and take care of my family, PROTECT: to protect and keep safe those I love, PRACTICALITY: to focus on what is practical, prudent, and sensible, PATRIOTISM: to love, serve, and protect my country, NOVELTY: to have a life full of change and variety, MUSIC: to enjoy or express myself in music, INTEGRITY: to live my daily life in a way that is consistent with my values, IMAGINATION: to have dreams and see possibilities , GRATITUDE: to be thankful and appreciative , FREEDOM: to be free from undue restrictions and limitations , DILIGENCE: to be thorough and conscientious in whatever I do, CURIOSITY: to seek out, experience, and learn new things, COURAGE: to be brave and strong in the face of adversity, HOPE: to maintain a positive and optimistic outlook, COMPROMISE: to be willing to give and take in reaching agreements, BELONGING: to have a sense of belonging, being part of, ART: to appreciate or express myself in art |